LOL, he is the opposite of an Incel. He took you on luxury trips around the world after all. He realized first that you are untrustworthy (financial dependence, not true loyalty). So he set you up with a trust test and you failed it, demonstrating and proving that YOU are the lower-value untrustworthy one. You are/were in love with the idea of love/partnership, but not in love with him, himself. He was smart enough to realize that long before you became honest enough with yourself. And yet, you attempt to re frame things in an opportunistic way, that makes you look more virtuous than you actually her. Again, his points all proven at your loss.