Correctly Using the C Word

Let’s learn about the ABC’s, without the A in today’s post:

People sometimes wonder about the PRECISE definition of the “C” word. (most often applied to women)

It is defined as whining and complaining about something in life WHILE SIMULTANEOUSLY not fully committed to solutions — not engaged in taking significant action (especially action that is uncomfortable or outside that habitual “comfort zone”), even MASSIVE ACTION to truly change it.

Without massive action in the direction of solutions, (we’re talking smart, strategic, and consistent action of course, not token action that just pretends it is action), it shows the C is actually committed to KEEPING THE PROBLEM solidly in place in order to merely get SYMPATHY by whining like a B. We know that to create positive change in any area of life, some new and targeted action has to happen.

Since behavior is the single most powerful form of communication, their behavior of NOT taking strategic action in a massive, positive way, communicates. It communicates their actual commitment is to keeping the problem around, usually SO THAT they can be a B and stay stuck in life in complaint mode.

Being a B without also taking massive positive action, defines a person as a C.